Cannot find your friends in Pretend You’re Xyzzy? Start by comparing the full server address, not just the game name. This guide explains where to meet and what to check before choosing a separate Russian/English game.
Why the server address matters
The official Xyzzy lobby directs friends to choose the same server or follow a direct game link. Its listings include a third-party server, so features need not be identical everywhere.
Choose one organizer, have them create the game and send its complete link. If a friend cannot see it, compare the address first, then check the game and password. Sending only the general lobby URL leaves an extra choice for each guest.
| Feature | Pretend You’re Xyzzy | Cynical Cards |
|---|---|---|
| Meeting point | A server and game link | A room invitation on bon.cards |
| Chat | Depends on the listed server | General chat and room chat |
| Starting point | Choose a server together | Sign in, then create or join a room |
Check chat and avoid duplicate tabs
The lobby marks the main listed server as having no chat, while a third-party listing advertises global chat. The main server page also warns against opening multiple copies of its game in one browser. These are the published server notes, not results of a live multiplayer test.
For a remote evening, arrange a voice call separately if you need one. Keep the invitation somewhere easy to retrieve, and ask newcomers to use the same link rather than search for the room by name.
If your group wants Russian and English cards
Cynical Cards is a separate service, not another Xyzzy server. It supports Russian and English interface and card settings. Each player needs an account; a room takes 3–10 adults. Create a room, select familiar decks and share its invitation and optional password.
A familiar name does not guarantee that a particular deck works for your group. Try one round and check whether everyone understands the references before committing to a longer session.